How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 06:58
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Does not procrastinate.
What's the most valuable lesson you've learned in life, and how has it impacted your journey so far?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Ask yourself:
That's it for today.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
As a woman, what would be you response to a male friend’s offer of a full body massage?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why do people love to live alone in a house?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.